I‘m Loudly Ringing Holiday Bells To Get Your Attention! All around you there are talk show hosts, news anchors, radio jocks, bloggers, and writers talking about the humdrum blues of the holiday seasons…. most of them reading from the same old recycled list that is used year after year. Let’s face it folks, from Thanksgiving to New Years, and all of the celebrations in between, you are reminded of all the goals you had, but just did not achieve….. AGAIN! The feelings of hopelessness, anxiety, or frustration that this may invoke is what I refer to as being “SOULED OUT!”
Many recognize this season only as an emotional time of year, but what they may not be aware of is that it is a very mental time as well. The subtle difference between emotional and mental that many overlook is that our emotions are directly affected by our mental processes, but our emotions and thoughts are truly not one in the same. Simply said, the concepts of exchanging gifts and having a family dinner, in and of themselves, do not conjure emotions. It is actually the THOUGHT of exchanging gifts or having dinner with family and friends that do. When we THINK about how we may lack the ability to do things we’d like for the people we love, or about the things that we’d like to have, but don’t possess, or the people we’d like to have in our lives but don’t, we trigger our EMOTIONS. AND often we allow our THOUGHTS to be influenced by the thoughts and circumstances of others, especially during this time of year.
This holiday season calls have been pouring in to me from clients all around the world. They have expressed various feelings of despair, loneliness, and anger, such as “God doesn’t care about me…”, “It seems like God has favorites and I’m not one of them…” , “No matter how hard I try things just remain the same or get worse…”, “I am too lonely to continue living in this state”, “I feel abandoned by my Soul!” or “Sincee`, I want to give up!”
People are “SOULED OUT!” They are reaching out to me to provide them with some motivation or reason to even continue breathing. To them, and maybe you, life seems to relentlessly hold happiness hostage. Life though, is not the culprit. YOU are the painter of your life’s canvas, every choice that you make and vibration you manifest is a stroke of the brush that shapes the painting of your life.
I am not going to regurgitate to you any of the cliche` remedies that you’ve been hearing all of your lives. I am not going to pat you on the back and confirm to you that everything will be alright, flooding you with a stream of run of the mill reassurances that serve only to provide you with a temporary “feel good” fix. What I will do; however, is tell you that you are out of alignment!
The trouble in many of our lives is most-likely spawned out of our lack of recognition of ourselves as beings of LIGHT. We see ourselves as separate, often blaming the reasons for our circumstances on others or existences, rather than accepting that we and we alone are responsible for maintaining our own alignment, which directly reflects our circumstances and happiness. The recognition that we are beings of LIGHT is the first step to realignment. It is the necessary foundation for providing the road map to understanding our purpose in life. It is the foundation on which we define Who WE Are!
So, who are we? How do we define ourselves? How do you define YOURSELF? As we commence daily life, we all have our personal standards that we adhere to, but do the majority of us really take the time to construct our principles? I would bet NOT! Most of us have no truly defined principles, and without principles in place how could we possibly begin to identify the traits, ideals and values that form our character? AND if we don’t know our character then how in this world could we possibly understand our role!? Do YOU know what you’re doing here in this lifetime? That is a pretty loaded question that you probably can’t answer, more than likely because you’ve bought in to the ideologies, perceptions and viewpoints of the way others interpret you and your purpose!
Everything begins in our own space. “Your space ends where the next persons space begins!” is what I like to say to my clients. Understanding this one simple verity helps us to move forward, unencumbered with the impositions of others, who themselves are not aligned enough to see the LIGHT of Soul. Unfortunately, most of us are not aligned to see this light, so we often pierce holes in each others space when our vibrations are incompatible, thereby creating turbulence. This turbulence shakes us up and keeps us out of our perfect balance. Our first priorities should always be to recognize who we truly are, define our principles and align ourselves so that we may better understand how to play our role in fulfilling our purpose, as well as assist others with fulfilling theirs.
When we come into any life we come intentionally! Our existences are neither coincidences, nor are they mistakes. We, as Soul, choose the perfect body for our assignments, as it is the plug into the current that gives us breath. We breathe because we are connected to the beyond! I don’t think we take the time to think about this! It is so evident in our willingness to accept defeat to the notion that we have no control. Everyday is truly a new day! A day to live in our own creation, truth and purpose!
Make this Holiday Season your new beginning. Don’t be “SOULED OUT.” On the contrary, acknowledge yourself AS Soul, a magnificent being of LIGHT. Define principals for yourself and focus on getting your own life and reality to reflect what you would like it to be. Respect the space of others by staying in yours. Don’t wallow in the darkness of doubt and concern! Instead, take the time to move forward by appreciating the smaller things in life, such as a quiet moment with a cup of coffee or tea in hand, that lunch time yoga class, a walk in the park, talking with a friend, an intimate family moment, or one of so many other wonderful calm quiet joys.
Most importantly, once you begin your alignment process and define your principles, DO NOT compromise them. Align yourself to flow in peace and harmony to nourish yourself and all of life. Find your perfect flow and remain accepting of the flow of others. The universe is calling you! AND for those of you who believe that you are failing or falling, YOU ARE NOT! You are gaining the experiences that you came here to have to assist you in increasing your awareness and “rising upward!”
Join me for “12 Continuous Hours of Vibration” on New Year’s Eve!
Happy Holidays!
Make Great Memories!
I Am Always here to help you “EnterLight!”
Sincee`